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1723 York Street

About once a year  I dream of my childhood home – at least one of them.   We moved quite a bit, so there were many “homes.”   But there is “the one.”   It is the one I lived in from the summer of 1965 through  early September  1970.   It was my parent’s first home purchase so it was a big deal.   It is the one that was only 4 blocks from Wallace Elementary, where I attended school from Kindergarten through 4th grades.   It was just 4 blocks from Grandma’s house and a couple of blocks from my cousin Diana, who would drop by and “pick me up” on her way to school.  

I loved that house.   There is no explanation for the value I place on it except maybe: It was green grass and having a best friend just across the alley and lilacs and long summer days.   It was a rusty old swingset on which I spent hours singing my heart out to the heavens.   It was neighbors who paid us nickels and quarters for rocks and shells we took door-to-door, us thinking we were giving them a real bargain,  kind people knowingly supporting our adventure, divining we really just needed some penny candy money for the corner grocer 5 blocks away.   It was neighborhood relays with homemade ribbons and paper drives and screen doors that slammed musically to the cricket’s songs as we ran to capture lightening bugs for jewelry.   It was innocence and family, it was friends and church.   It was my mom on the piano teaching us to sing gospel for all we were worth.   It was the safe place.

Several times over the years I have been moved to send Christmas greetings to the current inhabitants of the house at 1723 York Street in Des Moines, Iowa wishing them all the joy and love and peace I experienced there.   They have never replied and for all I know there are restraining orders on file concerning me.

So, occasionally I dream about it and have googled the address from time to time.   Last week  I did so and was overwhelmed and delighted to see that “my house,” my place of nostalgic extravagance, was up for sale.   My parents bought it for $12,000 in ’65 and sold it for $17,000 in ’70.   It is listed at $110,000 now, which seems an amazing bargain for such a magical childhood palace.  

There it was.   My 1723 York Street house!   I have actually always daydreamed about owning it now.   And there it was on a real estate site – with pictures!   And even though the colors are different (the woodwork is painted now), it has not changed much at all.   It seems smaller.   It’s old (built in 1913).   The old-fashioned 3-car garage with swing-open doors is long gone, replaced by a nice new 2 car version with an overhead like everyone else.   But it is my house, my home, my street.   That is my grass and enclosed side porch (lots of Barbie time there).   My trees are gone, as is the sidewalk that once went straight from the front stairs to the public walkway.   But it is my house, my home, my street.

The other day, I went “thrifting” with the girls and made 2 totally fruitless purchases, except that they gave me something tangible to remember those years there.   I got an over-sized, burnt-orange Haeger pottery ash tray just like my grandma used to have in her house (there are slots for at least 9 cigarettes!).   So 1960s!   And, I got an old black, rotary, wall phone by Bell – one exactly like the one that hung in our kitchen at 1723 York Street when my phone number was 266-7121.   These are worthless artifacts except to look at and recall a time and place and the innocent girl who skipped and romped through it.

 

I am somewhat war-damaged now.   Time has taken it’s toll on the body.   Circumstances have wreaked havoc on the heart.   The innocence has been lost and lost again, but finds repair and healing in the heart of the Father.   I can’t help but believe that my address in heaven will be 1723 York Street, for I am that same girl yet, beneath this outer crust, but there, I will never grow old.

Forgive my indulgent reminiscing…Jeanie

NOTE TO READERS:   Two days after I “found” it, the listing (www.dsmhomes.com)  seems to have been removed, which I can only assume means it sold.   I think finding it was a gift from God to help me update my dreams…

pictured: the house at 1723 York Street in Des Moines as it currently looks and the dining room; a couple of shots of the kitchen at the York Street house; the York Street living room – it’s windows are it’s true glory; the old Bell phone and Haeger ashtray I just got while “thrifting” with the girls; the girls in Olde Town Arvada; a cute bakery sign in Olde Town.

Grace Notes

Life’s Grace Notes: Unexpected moments of perfection, the  tiniest shimmer  of  beauty  piercing your heart.   The I-was-made-for-this minute; the unscheduled, fleeting, almost-unnoticeable events that make the life you have more valuable than you can imagine or could ever have hoped or asked for.

Grace note:   Daughter, Tara, sitting in the chair in the family room, singing the new song she has just written to the Lord.   The song is breathtakingly beautiful, outshone only by the  clarity of her voice,  striking and true.  

Grace note:   Rocky & Jovan drawing us all into a game of murder and angelic rescue and accusations called “Mafia.”   We laugh and turn on each other like there is no tomorrow, in the spirit of friendly, family  competition.   Laughing our heads off, we wonder why we don’t play games more?

 

Grace note: Stormie and Tredessa coming home from Venezuela after almost two weeks.   When Steph and the kids show up to see them, an impromtu weekday afternoon pool party ensues on a sunny, summer day.  

Grace note: Tredessa deciding to hang out here at our house for a few days following the trip.   Regular life gets placed aside because of our special “house guest,” and that is sweet.

Grace note:   Stormie, frustrated that the new card trick she keeps trying on everyone isn’t really that good.   The odds, which are supposed to be in her favor, keep landing in ours.   Fun for us.

 

Grace Note:   Gavin’s hair carefully self-styled – with gel, no less, for his Back-to-School night, which is really his first-ever night at school.

Grace note:   A God-appointed few hours with Stephanie, just the two of us and me so enjoying our conversation, I don’t notice that just one side of my face is getting burnt to a crisp, just one side.

Grace note:   Dave studying for a class he’ll be teaching…in the pool.   He is getting paid for it.   *smile…

Grace note:   Hunter pondering the Home of Refuge Orphange in Venezuela.   When I tell him, “They don’t have a mommy and daddy like you do.”   He tells me wisely, “God is their daddy now.”

Nothing earth-shattering.   Nothing you’d necessarily plan for or schedule in, but sweet and harmonious, the very sound of heaven, “the music of living.”   Extra notes and embellishments make the song all the sweeter.   I hum along.

It is unmerited, I assure you.   Are you hearing yours?…Jeanie

NOTE FO SELF:   Listen for the moments.

pictured: Stormie and Tredessa with the orphans; Gavin smelling a dinnerplate Dahlia; Hunter in his jammies, making me laugh  as the sun was setting one evening;   Dave on the clock.

Send Us Out

Mission’s Flame by Matt Redman

 

Let worship be the fuel for mission’s flame,

we’re going with a passion for Your name,

we’re going ’cause we care about Your fame,

send us out.

 

Several of my family left Friday for the Home of Refuge in Venezuela.   Our deal is: if they go, I pray.   There is an awesome group of 11 who went including Mary Jean (my co-mother-in-law) and Tredessa who are leading the group, my baby girl, Stormie, my niece, Elise, and Stef,   who worked so hard alongside us for Heaven Fest that I have practically adopted her.

 

Here are some things you can join with me in praying about as they are already there and hard at work:  

 

  • That the kids in the neighboring village will hear the good news of Christ and be  eternally impacted  through the day camp they are having.
  • For wisdom and guidance for Mary Jean and Tredessa  in leading this team of  9 young adults.   Pray Ephesians 1.17-19 for them and for Tony & Rosa, the leaders fo HOR in Venezuela and Honduras.
  • For supernatural energy coming  off of these busy last few months, and especially just following Heaven Fest-during which almost every single member of the team was intricately involved.
  • For unity as a team.   No offense or problems.
  • That God  would  awaken  His vision and  unique calling for every team member on this trip.
  • Pray for the physical health of each team member – with all the change, demand and even shock that a mission trip can bring, a vulnerability is created which wears down the physical body. Also, the heat and humidity can be draining. Pray for wisdom for each of  them – that  they would listen to  their bodies and take proper care of themselves.   At least 2 team members were dealing with health issues before going.   Also, the  scheduleis to be  very demanding.
  • Inflation is completely out of control in Venezuela. The rental for an OLD bus – and gas at 18 cents a gallon – is costing $1000 one way. 1 chicken (for dinner) costs $30.   Pray for continued  provision.
  • They are focusing  their efforts on leadership development of the older kids at HOR. The kids  will be assisting  the team  in running a 3 hour/day “camp” for the younger kids at HOR plus the kids in the surrounding neighborhood.
  • Venezuela has passed some new laws which make the country more tight, more controlled, more corrupt and more dangerous. Pray for safety and freedom from harm.

I miss you, my ones, but  I also hear your cry toward heaven to be sent out.   He has sent you and so I pray…Jeanie aka mom

 

NOTE TO SELF: “May the Lamb who was slain receive the reward of His suffering,”  (the Moravian cry).  Those sweet orphans are His reward.

 

Happy Birthday, Guinivere Eden~

 

Guini is three!

Last night we celebrated Guini-poo.   She was in ponytails wearing a Little Mermaid dress with sparkly pink shoes when she graciously opened all her presents, layed the clothes aside without much thought, oohed and aahed over the fun stuff and then got the pink, shimmery bike with the glittery festooning and horn and took off riding, never to be heard from again.

She rode and she rode and she rode.   Perhaps she stopped long enough for the Little Mermaid cake?

Since the day you were born, sweet Guinivere, I have always seen you as my little princess.   So fitting that you love the Disney Princesses so and have landed on my personal favorite, Ariel.   And it is kinda funny because  you  are the only Kelley kid who isn’t a red-head, but  your princess-of-choice is one! (See Guini above as Ariel the Little Mermaid  at the Fall Harvest Fest -sometimes known as Halloween – shhhh…).

To know you is to love you, Guini-muggins.   But to know you takes thought and patience and time.   In the crowd, you are quiet and self-sufficient, but get you alone and the true powerhouse, chatterbox comes out.   At three, you already know your own mind.   You are sweet and sensitive, sassy and silly.   You are smart and singular in purpose.   But my favorite part of you: the singer, as you belt out the song of the Lord.

A few weeks ago, just you and me on a Saturday evening watching the most gorgeous purple and orange sunset of the summer, your little song of the Lord began to rise.    And as we stood, arms raised toward heaven, I know the whole neighborhood heard your unabashed worship, it would have been impossible not to, as you sang from the deep place in your heart with your loudest voice over and over and over:

He loves us, O how He loves us!

He does love us, Guini.   And He loves you and He is going to use your strong passion to declare it!   I am watching, giddy with excitement!  

Happy Birthday, my Guinivere!…Nonna

NOTE TO SELF:   More one on one time with Guini.

pictured: Guini, “Under the sea” and Guini as Ariel; Guini with the Little Mermaid beach towel and the bean bags game, both handcrafted for her with love from Aunt Stormie!

Heaven Fest, Picture It

A quick sampling of Heaven Fest through the lense.   Thanks to my good friend and HF Media Director, Kori Verspohl, for the sneak peek!

     

 

And the day is just getting started!

 

We were all shaking our heads: they heard – they came.   They actually showed up!

 

 

This sepia has got to be one of my favorites.   You can see the cloud cover we got from the sun, almost feel the movement of worship toward heaven.

My son-in-law, Dave (the heart of the festival), praying with a Skillet guy

Your Kingdom come, Lord

Your will be done

On earth – as it is heaven!

 

The nameless, faceless band at Main Event?   Not nameless, nor faceless in heaven, nor to their mama!   My kiddos: Dave and Tara, Steph and Tris, Rocky and Stormie, along with Dan and Marianna (we’ve grafted them in to the family), Louis (Proxy) and Tammy  and about 30 of their closest, praying friends!

The enemy has been defeated

Death couldn’t hold You down

We’re gonna lift our voice in victory

We’re gonna make our praises loud!

 Note:   I have already written about Heaven Fest, here (where I tell how I got here, as well as what happened personally for me there) and here…

PS – on my operating system, at least, if you click on the picture, you get an enlarged look!

27 Years

Dave, on his blog, talks about the 27 years of movies, but the very first movie, the one we watched at a place he was housesitting on May 26, 1981, the movie he invited me over to view on TBS – while I  was unaware it was a “date, but was without a doubt, retrospectively, a date(!) was “Man’s Favorite Sport.”   Rock Hudson, Paula Prentiss, silly romance, our beginning.

Not completely our beginning, I guess.   I had known him for almost 3 years.   We were friends with common friends and connections.   We met at Bible College in Minot, ND.   But I left for a time and he wrote to me and our friendship was sweet and very nice.   Naturally I thought he was sooooo cute, but he had a serious girlfriend, so I never let on that  I thought so.   When I moved back to Minot, I can remember sitting at a cafeteria table with some friends, one of which called him over to discuss something or another.   As he left, she said to the group, “Oh, Dave Rhoades is so cute, oh my gosh.”   All the other girls nodded and answered affirmatively, while I coyly said, “He’s alright.”

 

But on May 26, he stopped by my office and asked me to come over and watch a movie.   I thought it was just a “friends hanging out” thing, but wonderfully-it was not.

Our second date was the very next night.

Our third, the next.   I think you get the idea.

By June 8 – we both knew we were in love.   I know being “in love” takes a hit in Christendom, but crimenentlies people, being in love is FUN stuff!   I still like it!

June 16, 1981, Dave proposed to me.

We were married July 23, a Thursday night, at 8 pm in Wimbledon, ND. – slightly less than 2 months after that first date.

 

We were married 27 years ago tonight.   I didn’t have the wedding of my dreams (I blame my brother Joe for this, but that is a whole different story), but I married the man of my dreams.

Last night, we were at a small prayer meeting of about 40 or 50 people  at church, preparing for Heaven Fest and our kids were leading worship.   Dave was at the back videotaping the amazing music as Dave and Tara started leading a song they wrote that I love, “Jesus, Name Above All Names.”   The melody is sweet, the harmonies were full and there was  my beautiful husband looking at our kids through the camera lense.   From my vista, I  could see them all, including the grandkids who were now  running and dancing around my feet.   For a moment, I lost my breath and I am certain my heart skipped a beat.

We did this, Dave, I was thinking.   We fell in love, we gave our love to God, He gave us our children, we gave them back to Him, and the love goes on.   This is what we have to show for 27 years.  

You are still so beautiful to me.   Happy anniversary, Dave,   I would marry you all over again…J

 pictured: Dave when I first fell for him; me just before I walked out the door to marrry Dave; post-wedding – my officemate, Elaina, had just thrown a bunch of rice straight down my dress.

Obama-Oprah, O8

I don’t know – maybe it’s just me, but could this be the winning ticket?…   Everybody gets to speculate, right?   And since the Bible says  a person’s  gift will make room for them, I’d say Obama owes Oprah, certainly for the Democratic nomination and especially if he becomes our next President.   So maybe her gift will make room for her on the Democratic ticket.

Thanks to Stormie for putting my political pondering together for me.  

We better keep watching: www.barackobama.com, www.oprah.com   O-goodness. O-my.   O-brother.

 

Previous blog post, same subject.

The Office, A Summer Fix

You can watch mini “webisodes” of The Office at this site:

http://www.nbc.com/The_Office/video/nbc_off_web_101_20060712.shtml#video

It is pretty much just an episode that never aired cut up into tiny chunks, but they are ever-so-welcome morsels of fun for this dry, Office-less summer!   These characters are my people.   I believe I have worked with every one of them.

Last week Tristan posted this youtube of Gavin (4) and Guini (2) re-enacting the scene of Jim and Dwight and the Altoid/Pavlov’s Dog Experiment.  

In the actual The Office episode, Jim and Dwight are shown working at their desks when Jim’s computer makes that “bell-sound” and Jim says, “Oh, I have to re-boot, again.   Hey Dwight – do you want an Altoid?”

Dwight snears at Jim, “What do you think?”   And reaches for the mint.

Then they shoot Jim in the conference room explaining, “In school, we learned about this scientist who trained dogs to salivate at the sound of a bell by feeding them whenever the bell rang.   So, for the past couple of weeks I’ve been conducting a similiar  experiment.”

They cut back to the co-workers at their desk and the little computer bell going off and Jim asking, “Dwight-want an Altoid?”   Dwight says, “OK.”   This happens several times until finally,  the little bell sound happens  and Dwight automatically reaches out his hand.

Jim asks, “What are you doing?”

Dwight, looking confused: “I, I don’t know.   Oh, my mouth tastes so bad all of the sudden…”

Jim looks at the camera, satisfied his experiment has worked.

Guini is “Dwight,” her hair parted just like his, but she couldn’t manage being rude to Jim, played by Gav.   Everytime he’d give her an “Altoid,” she’d say “thank-you” very brightly.   So-here is Gav and Gunin’s take, as taped by their father  for their mommy’s birthday.  

 

Two New Blogs in the “J” Section

me and Jovanie

My daughter-in-law, Jovan, just started blogging.   Check it out:   http://jovanrhoades.wordpress.com

And concerning Jovan, yestrday during church, I read a revelatory scripture that so applied to her and I.   The background is that I grew up saying I wanted to have eight boys, no girls-just 8 boys,   After having 4 girls and only one boy, I would kid that Rocky was so “all-boy” God knew he was all I could handle.   Then yesterday, as we were finishing up a series from the Book of Ruth (which I believe should have been called the Book of Naomi, ha!), I read this (Naomi’s friends were celebrating the new grandson and the restoration God had brought Naomi, calling her to praise Him for it):

“For your daughter-in-law, who loves you, and is better to you than seven sons…”

And this is true.   Jovan loves me and I love her.   And God has revealed without a doubt that she is better than seven more sons would have been.   She is better.

Julie

And, Julie is now blogging.   I have only spoken with Julie in person one time, but we have a lot of connection both through common friends and spiritually.   She is a young pastor’s wife with a strong heart after the things of God.   I’m impressed by her commitment to raise her children for God, for His intent for their lives and for choosing a surrendered life.   I think you’ll like her heart, too.   http://surrenderedandsurrounded.blogspot.com

39 Days until Heaven Fest…

I promise not to update every stinking day…

But I just wanted to tell you how beautiful and sweet and restorative last night was.   It was the kick-off to our 40 Nights of Prayer and Worship leading up to Heaven Fest.   The sound system was set up on the veranda outside the cafe at Northern Hills on the west side of the building.   There was a gentle breeze and a brilliant sun.   Swans were swimming  to beat the band  in the pond and we got to worship God through a beautiful sunset, reflected on the water.   Double blessing!

Some people prayed out loud, some silently.   The three young children there with their parents  frolicked joyfully in the beautiful summer,  night air.   It was a disconnect from TV, work, cell phones, computers, etc., etc.   And though we went to pray for Heaven Fest, we found God waiting to kiss us with rest and repair.   And He did paint THE most beautiful sunset for us, as the crickets worshiped along and the birds fluttered by.

So-come when you can.   Just sit.   Just soak.   Bring the kids.

NOTE: My kiddos are leading worship tonight (Dave and Tara and Rocky and Tris and Steph and Stormie and Dan and Marianna).   Mary Jean and I will tomorrow night.   It isn’t another church service.   It isn’t another Christian duty.   It isn’t another have to.   But if you feel like “getting away” (unplug, already!), just come.   Just come…

I promise I am not “shoulding” on you!…Jeanie

NOTE TO SELF: To BE rather than to DO, that is the ticket!