Grandbebe’s annual Christmas PJ Party with Nonna and Poppa~
1.7 seconds after they got through the front door, this is what I saw.
The PJ party included, but was not limited to cookies for baking and Toys R Us for shopping and Good Times for eating and food playing. There was hot chocolate with marshmallows and whipped cream and popcorn and movies and 7up and cookies and cousins and the-best-way-to-spread-Christmas-cheer-is-singing-LOUD-for-all-to-hear and the Christmas story and making ornaments for Nonna’s tree and the annual reindeer-head print using little-but-growing hands and feet and paint (what the heck am I thinking!??) and watching Gilligan’s Island, of all things and sleepy little heads nodding off anywhere from between 9 pm and 2 in the morning (Guini and Hunter are almost always the hold-outs). And somehow they still wake up at the butt-crack of dawn no matter how late the festivities and little monkeys jumping on beds and o-my-goodness: I was born for this!
I snapped these while talking to my mom on the phone while the kids ate breakfast with Grandpa.
The employees at Toys R Us did not seem nearly as joyously enchanted with our little monkeys as we were. It was merry mischief.
I’ll be home with bells on. I’ll be home with bells on.
Trim the tree and wrap the presents, turn the Christmas music on
This Christmas I’ll be home with bells on.
Can’t you just hear Dolly Parton belting that out? It is a happy place for me: Dolly and Christmas!
Home.
Tredessa and Ryan just moved in to their little, leased, 3-bedroom first home – in time for Christmas. It is so cute. They’ve got a big, fenced back yard with a workshop and garden shed. The house has been renovated and painted and upgraded and spiffed-up just in time for them, but those gleaming wooden floors slant for some good marble-rolling, like any 100-year-old house does. They are near “downtown Frederick,” one of the cutest little towns between Denver and Fort Collins. Everything is small and quaint there, little shops, family-owned Italian restaurants, and parks where young families meet up during walks and soccer practice. They have an alley and live about 7 blocks from Rocky and Jovan and only about 1.3 miles from Dave and Tara over on the Circle. The photos below are realtor shots.
Front of house. Entry and living room (the piano is at the base of the stairs now), family room
Eat-in kitchen, fresh paint and brand new counters and cabintery, and one of the bedrooms.
1200-little-square-feet of love.
When Tredessa mentioned concern about a lack of good closet space and how small the rooms are, her sister Tara incredulously reminded Tredessa: the whole house is yours! You are not rooming with other people now. You have just increased your square footage by like 1000+ square feet! Haha! :)
And Tredessa and I were just talking about how good God is and what a crazy blessed year it has been for them. They met, fell in love, got married and were planning to live in an apartment for a year or two, but the deep desire of Dessa’s heart was a house where they could stay put for a bit and maybe get started on their family. And God just delights in doing good toward us. And so my daughter has a home. Home for Christmas!
Where the Heart is…
Home is a big deal to me. My family moved a. lot. while I was a kid, and both my parents had had rather nomadic childhoods so there was this silly moving thing. Dave and I determined NOT to do that, yet, living in a small Nebraska city experienced some uprooting and movement we did not enjoy. I long for cocooning. I enjoy having a place, being settled. Yes, sometimes I have made it an idol, and I have had to learn that God is my home, He is where my heart truly rests.
5 LORD, you alone are my portion and my cup;
you make my lot secure.
6 The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places;
surely I have a delightful inheritance.
7 I will praise the LORD, who counsels me;
even at night my heart instructs me.
Psalm 16 NIV
But at Christmastime, like no other time, I think, home is wondrous. A house to hold everything your heart holds dear. Season turns in to season and the children grow and look forward to certain cookies baking and a particular ornament going in an exact place on the tree and new jammies because of the Christmas morning photographs and the traditions make home more than a roof over some walls, but a place, an altar of sorts ~ a warm reminder from Father that we are His family, His household of faith. And He blesses us and gives us family on which to lavish our love and a place in which to enjoy it.
And God has blessed my familia. With homes and family.
Stephanie and Tristan got to buy their house when they had only been married for 3 months! She was still only 19 years old (Tristan was a ripe old 21, I think) when God planted them in the middle of their block, a good-looking young couple who were not even certain yet about becoming parents, when or if it would be in their plans. But o-my-goodness, the delight a year and half later when they presented us with Gavin. Now three of the cutest kids frolic through those rooms and Steph’s home-style has grown (in the 10-years-on-Dec-27-since-they-got-married!!!) and become colorful and jovial, kind of a light, bright, retro-vintage, but wholly modern and extremely hip home base. And she changes up her Christmas decorating every year. And a lot of times I see on Facebook that she has been listening to Spotify and I will smile when I see her, in her very own home with her own little munchkins, listening to a lot of the Christmas music we listened to while she was growing up. Wasn’t that just yesterday?
I don’t think we have a full Kelley-family Christmas-decor reveal yet, but this is from a recent photo shoot Steph and Tris did in their living room. You can see more at www.maydae.com
Dave and Tara travelled so much they were not even interested in buying their own home for years. They’d been able to lease a wonderful, roomy place right after their 4-month-honeymoon-ministry tour when they got back to accept a position at Northern Hills Church.
But suddenly last year, it hit Tara that she wanted to buy a house. Just kaboom. She was ready to commit to a neighborhood and a little bit of stay-puttedness (yes, I know that is not a real word). And just a couple of days before Christmas, they closed on their home, the perfect place for them with lots of parking for lots of people over there all the time and a gorgeous back yard that connects to open space where Hunter can run. And parks nearby. And lots of family near, now. Ahem.
And the house is warm and bright and cozy and light and roomy, yet intimate and filled with Tara’s touches and so super clean and organized (that’s Tara)! We squeezed all of us and Ryan’s family from Florida in there for Thanksgiving and we all became fast-friends and family just because we were so squished and it was lovely. Last year around this time, they got a house for Christmas with an extra bedroom for a new baby – and who even knew that was about to happen!?!
Tara’s at Thanksgiving and after Christmas movies last night
Inspired by Dave and Tara’s success, Rocky and Jovan decided they’d had enough of apartment dwelling and bought their first house right after Christmas last year. And Jovan boldly added color and more color and handmade touches everywhere. Jovan has been madly crafting and creating all season long, some of which you can see on her blog (www.littlebitsandgiggles.com), making life merry and bright for her family. While Rocky continues to work on the recording studio going in to the basement, the girls are enjoying their great big yard and being very close to their grammie and papa (Jovan’s parents). There is definitely room for a baby brother!! Haha.
Then Stormie. The baby of the family – she bought her very first house just before her 25th birthday this past April. And she has made it uniquely hers this Christmas season. Her very busy schedule and roommate/sister leave to be married resulted in her deciding on something very “scaled back,” though her version of that includes an actual antler “tree.” Yes, antlers. And she even put a few lights outside. And did some very different, non-commercial-type things for her little home Christmas decor. This is Christmas for her and the dog, Saber, whom she lovingly calls, “The German.”
Stormie’s house. And antler tree.
Everybody is safe in their homes tonight, where little lights twinkle and Christmas is expressed in many new ways, but also just like we have always done everything. And I am home and the house is festive and the ghost of Christmas past just walked down the hall and when she opened the door, I heard the 5 little Rhoades kids giggling and making merry – like it was yesterday. My heart is no longer at home just here. A little bit of it lives in 5 other lovely homes nearby…
Congratulations, Ryan and Dessa! There’s no place like home for the holidays!
The scene outside my patio this morning: chilly, crisp, foggy and a sweet frosty coating on the world
Sometimes a name is just a name, and
sometimes a name captures someone perfectly. The ancients inclined to choose
names carefully, so as to make a lifelong statement about a person’s identity.
“Jesus” is a name so familiar to us, that we easily forget that it was a name
with an extraordinary significance. The name an angel announced should be given
to Mary and Joseph’s new child. And what a name! “Jesus” means “the Lord
saves.”
He does indeed.
Call him Jesus, the angel said, “because he will save people from their
sins.” None of us can save ourselves anymore than a person sinking in a rowboat
can save himself by pulling up on the side of the boat. We need a savior, and
not just a theoretical savior, but one who really has the power of God to
separate us from the tyranny and the guilt of sin. ~Mel Lawrenz (from a www.BibleGateway.com Christmas Joy devotional)
Jesus saves. I love that. I need it. He saves.
In other Christmas news…
The chalkboard…not exactly what I was hoping for. I dipped regular kid-style sidewalk chalk in water to intensify the color and made my own “liquid chalk” for the color red (a teaspoon of water, a teaspoon of corn starch and a quarter- teaspoon of red food coloring). I would re-do it, but I don’t have anything else in mind, anyway. Got the idea off Etsy.com …any chalkboard artists out there??
Aaaaaawwwww…..
Candi B. and Amy Jo were at my house the other night while I was away (rehearsing for The Christmas Party) and thankfully, I got home in time to see them. But just in case, they left me “love notes.” So sweet!
Oops, Candi’s is blurry. My photography, I fear…
Gemma May’s pre-schooling takes on a decidedly Christmas-y flair
Pink tutus are our school uniform.
I think she decided to ampersand the “and”…at 4!
So thankful today for a Savior, able to save me from {Satan’s snares} and even from {maybe, especially from} myself.
I do not have this Christmas album. But I want to. Just because it is stinking cute.
Today there was nothing to do but give in to the beautiful snow on a bright and merry day and do some Christmas decorating.
Decorate & listen to Christmas music: my record albums. I am not ashamed to admit I really-really-really love Kenny Rogers’ and Dolly Partons’ “Once Upon a Christmas” recording from 1984. I love their renditions of every song they do. Dolly on “Winter Wonderland” is kind of amazing, actually.
Dave brought me an early 1960s Santa, sleigh and 2 reindeer, – a small, vintage Bakelite yard ornament from way back when, that he found in storage under the house. I had purchased them a thousand years ago, or 2002 – whichever, and never used them. Cleaned them up, and will need to do some repair and replacing the sled runners. So excited to add them to the Santa Claus collection for 2011.
The honeymooners will be “home” sometime today and wanting the house to look pretty and smell wonderful for them is fun & motivational in the decorating process.
I wonder if Tredessa plans to take her wooden Christmas train, a part of our decor since 1987, now that she is married?? Well, it currently sits next to the big Santa with his list of “good” children (including Gavin, Hunter, Guini, Gemma May, Averi J and Amelie Belle). Plus – I LOVE after-Christmas 90% off sales! Because you buy it and pack it away, no emotional attachment yet, and then when Christmas comes, you open the storage totes and look!!: brand new table-coverings and kitchen towels in the happiest of patterns and there may or may not be some crazy squeals of delight! Don’t judge me.
Rocky is singing in the big Christmas service at Rez in Loveland, today at 4 and 6:30 and both of the morning services tomorrow. He said it is an amazing program and he is really excited about getting to participate. They will LIVEstream it if you want to catch it! (I’ll be at today’s 4:00 pm service-look for me!). http://www.rez.org/live/
I saw Amelie kissing Santa ClausIt took her a little while to warm up to him this year.
It’s snowing. Now re-read that like Alvin said it to Dave on the classic Chipmunks’ Christmas album. {Look, Dave – it’s snowing!} Did you insert you very own Chipmunk voice there? I hope so!
The morning snow delights and surprises. Yes, even though they told us on the news it was coming.
I come downstairs to a fresh pot of coffee and Bedford Falls glowing softly, ready to thrill the grandbebes for Christmas. Snow is falling with white, fluffy enthusiasm and the timing is perfect as now (after all the wedding excitement) we can begin to fully embrace this most joyous of seasons and do our decorating. This is the weekend for it.
Today is our first “official” day in the office for future ministry stuff (to be announced shortly). Meeting our new and most-amazing intern, Emilee, there too. She could not be dissuaded from driving down from Fort Collins even for snow. We will be working on The Christmas Party* (PLEASE COME! admission is canned goods for families in Joplin still struggling to rebuild their lives after the tornado in May). And looking ahead with anticipation.
Then home to unveil the Santa collection, I hope, and perhaps start putting up the family-tree, the one with handmade ornaments and bits and pieces of an enduring family life.
Naturally, Dean is in my head.
*The Christmas Party~
Professional photographers will be on hand to snap family photos and the variety of artists and talents represented is the best show in town! Put it on your calendar and plan to be there!
No, sorry. I can’t show them. Tredessa and Ryan are honey-mooning and we have to wait.
But I took a few.
But it was barely any at all. I cannot believe it. I am a picture nut. I must have been busy! But here is a sneak peek into the final few hours before the I-do’s.” This is a little of my day…just a few days ago. Exciting times!
The runner gives good marriage advice. It was on artists’ canvas and will be stretched for wall art for the newlyweds.
Yes. I actually grew succulents for the bridal bouquets. And corsages and boutonnieres. In my kitchen. For 2 months. I am so silly sometimes, huh?
Mia and Mairin are lifelong family-friends. Their mom, Lisa is my most cherished friend in life. And out whole family is deeply attached to the whole Bierer family. They came from Minneapolis and jumped in and relieved me of all stress. I love them!
At this time I am taking a deep breath of joy. Looking around, remembering what I forgot and realizing: it doesn’t matter. My little girl is about to get married. There is nothing I forgot that even matters at all. It will be beautiful.
Family China was mixed in with the caterer’s China. Embroidered dresser scarves from Grandma were mixed with embroidered linens. Vintage enaml-ware and small antiques adorned tables with dusty-greens in vases (Tredessa is not a big flower girl). It came together.
Mairin and Mia set the desserts. I walked up and breathed a sigh of relief. Had a cake disaster (more on that later). Smiled. Put on lip gloss. And walked in to the church at 4:15, right on time. Lovely, lovely, lovely day. Seriously. Really. Lovely.
So, yeah – I finally “caved in” to it not long before the wedding and had to temper myself from wildly embracing it throughout the wedding-work. But it actually inspired and motivated me so much it became my reward for long hours worked! Five minutes on Pinterest is like an hour-long massage, or a 40-minute Calgon bath or even my favorite Maggiano’s Ravioli meal with cheesecake afterwards…only it is calorie-free!! It is social (I can follow you and you can follow me and we can “like” each other’s pins and even comment on them), it is creative (everything on the internet that even remotely interests you can be a part of one of your “boards”), and it is F-U-N to PIN!
So, I thought I’d start a series called Monday’s Most Interesting Pinterests.
And who knows? This may be the ONLY Monday I ever do it. Or I may remember some other time? But since I just got past the wedding, I thought I would show you some of the sites and images that were “pinned” to my “Goin’ to the Chapel” board. These were things I came across while surfing the ‘net for ideas and pinned myself, or which some one else on Pinterest had pinned and I re-pinned because they were wonderful. Some we used, some we didn’t, but it never failed to make me happy when I would just quickly go back and scroll through the images. This is what the top left of my Pinterest page looks like today. I will probably move “Goin’ to the Chapel” to the bottom now and “Love & JOY come to you – CHRISTMAS!” will move to the first “board.” http://pinterest.com/jeanierhoades/
These are some of the images I have looked at time and again, with their original sources where possible. Even though there are those we didn’t out-right use, I bet if some one looks closely enough, they will see the influence of them here or there when I reveal the wedding photos. We did just get Ellie’s photos and even though she came as an “extra” and not the actual photographer, WOWEE – the pics are great! She totally captured the lighting and vintage feel of the wedding exactly as my memory is holding it near…
And now a look back at a few of my pins over the past couple of months.
These two images represent important words. The one on the left is a list I used to kick-start my thinking about the wedding and all the decor to think through. It was one of my very first pins. The one on the right is one I happened across on Pinterest the day before the wedding. I thought it was cool for bridal attendants to write good wishes on the bottom of the bride’s shoes, but we didn’t actually use it.
More words. The image on the left was an early pin, too and we actually ended up using it at the wedding. It was the very last sign to be made and sweet Mairin Bierer painted it for me. The whole wedding was family-only so anyone could sit anywhere. The quote on the right from Sense and Sensibility, from the subdued-yet-passionate Mr Darcy was used on water bottle labels, too.
I actually looked up info on seating requirements (how many inches between tables and all that) from a banquet site, because we had the reception in a small barn. We went and set it up 3 weeks early and it was so hard to tell if it was going to work right. But then I found the image with all the people above and I knew we had done exactly what would work and that the barn would look full and happy for us and it really did. The image on the right was my great hope and my expectations were happily exceeded.
Succulents. I fell in love with the idea of succulents. I even actually grew the succulents used in boutonnieres and corsages and Tredessa’s bouquet right in my own kitchen windows! Succulents are wonderful, textural, green and very self-sufficient. The girls said I just liked saying the word ‘succulent’ because I said “succulent” so much. But come on – after the wedding, you can just plunk the succulent into soil and it will re-root and grow more. A miracle! I did find out, though, that they are heavy and need more support than regular flowers. And I did not realize that until 11 o’clock the night before the wedding. And that was no bueno. I am still enjoying them thoroughly so it is going to be succulent-city around here all winter, baby!
I saw bridal bouquets made totally from old brooches or buttons and while I was not sure if we’d go that direction, when Stormie brought a big container of vintage buttons to a wedding work night, I knew I would. I actually was able to stack bejeweled rhinestone buttons atop plain ones and add them to Tredessa’s bouquet. But we didn’t do white buttons.
Vintage labels. Tre and I liked the ones used in the wedding on the left, which they had designed themselves. We knew Stormie could do that, too, but then found the free-down-loadable ones on the right. Stormie just intensified the colors and added words and we used them on water bottles, decorative bottles on the tables, the dessert bar and other places needing explanation.
The Dessert Buffet
Tredessa was not set intently on a cake-as-the-centerpiece. the cake to her was just one offering to be among a nice selection of other desserts. So, I used Pinterest to collect photographs of other weddings where it had been done very well.
This one above was one of my favorites. Theirs was only a chocolate bar and of course we had chocolate, fruity sweets, a caramel fountain, cinnamon and spice items, short-breads and etc. But I thought it captured the vintage look Dessa wanted with the old table and I ended up using my old desk/table from my office at New Hope because of this photo. It seemed feminine and sweet and I think you will recognize this image’s influence when you see the wedding photos.
I think what caught my eye here was that the space was not a typical wedding space and the table was industrial, not fancy. We also were not having a “pretty” space, so I wanted to be sure the presentation was lovely like theirs. Varying heights. Pretty colors. Various materials.
The use of furniture and old windows made this dessert display interesting. I ended up not using this too much, but Stephanie totally merchandised the gifts area with old furniture.
Again the old table inspired and I think it would have been great fun to have had lots of smaller cakes. Isn’t this pretty? This is what you can find on Pinterest for your next party!
The hot wedding trend, according to what I have seen on Pinterest, is bite-sized cookies and lots of them! And since Tredessa didn’t care for a fussy cake, I knew this pic from Pinterest would be somewhere in my cake design.
Other things
Pinterest has so many pictures of the thousands of ways you can use good old-fashioned crepe-paper streamers! This is one where you dye just one side before decorating. We didn’t use it at all, but because I pinned it, I will remember i for the future! The little “fake” candles allowed us to have “candlelight” everywhere without fear of burning down the church or barn. Thank-you Dollar tree!
Is anyone surprised that the Rhoades family planned a photo booth? Dess liked the “living room” idea.
Stormie and I pulled out the family China we both have. It was mixed with the caterer’s China. Because of you don’t get the good dishes out for a family wedding, when on earth would you use them? We ended up stacking cups and saucers sort of like this for hot tea and hot chocolate.
I wanted a stole after I found the image on the left. I also wanted a green dress, but never got around to actually getting one. I ended up in aubergine, aka “purple.” Tredessa, like me, is a 40’s girl and that was the feel she was going for. Several of her attendants did 40’s do’s and red lipstick.
The barn.
Before we ever even got the barn, Tredessa and I were drawn to long family-style seating with elegant, yet not fussy table settings in barn-type spaces. The images on Pinterest definitely influenced our desires, which we fully fulfilled. We even had a chandelier. Two, actually.
You’ll see old windows in our wedding pictures.
Old lace showed up at Dessa and Ryan’s wedding in frames and lace balls we made ourselves. Thank-you Pinterest!
The church.
The huge, gorgeous white tree in the left image, which was part of a top-notch event at a grand Denver hotel, inspired me for our teeny-tiny chapel, where there were hand-crafted paper flowers (yes, we found tutorials on Pinterest), and we all liked the theatrical, casual seating of attendants from the image on the right.
**Sigh.
I love Pinterest. I started, I think, the 3rd week of September. I will miss looking at this particular board so much, but it remains to inspire others. Moving on to Christmas. My good friend Pearl just asked me if, post-wedding, I was resting. I said, I am Pinteresting. Hahahhaha!
See you there??
NOTE: Send me your email if you would like to be invited to Pinterest. I can get you in!
And: Anything I did not link here, you can find the original links to on my Pinterest, Goin’ to the Chapel.
I am actually running around like a crazy woman doing wedding stuff, Thanksgiving stuff, wedding stuff, company-coming prep, wedding stuff, and etc…
One of me and the girls’ all-time fav songs from my best-ever movie::
And a teeny-sneak-peek into one of today’s projects.
Now off to the chapel to decorate…
Am I deliriously happy for Dessa and Ryan? I am. Will I live through the extreme joyousness? I will. Do I love it all, all the craziness, and zany, over-the-top preparation and celebrating? I do. I really do. For real!
I learned to make hand-traced turkeys in Mrs. Fuch’s Kindergarten class. Wallace Elementary in Des Moines, Iowa. I do them with my grandbebes every year.
Averi-J and Gemma May. Cousins. My little girlies.