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A Whole Lotta Reading on the 7th Day of Christmas

Has it been a WEEK since Christmas already?

12 days

Well, must have been because New Year’s Day = a Walking Dead marathon and that is happening right here at my house.  Some sounds are not good for a recovering-sickie and that show has lots of those.  Ick…

on the 7th day of christmas

“Readers are Leaders” – my dad told me that

But he didn’t tell me that until I was married with a houseful of children (with no time to read) because when I was a little girl he worried that something was wrong with me because all I did was read and he wanted me out skipping rocks or something.  I had actually been trying to curb my reading appetite.  Haha.  Nobody reads more than he does now that he is retired, for sure!

I am doing the whole #emptyshelf challenge via Jon Acuff, so until I get my official backstage pass to the shared Pinterest board (I was late), I’ll post my progress here.  Most people cleared off a shelf in their houses to put the books they read this year, but since my Kindle Reader has almost 50 books in it now (several only partially read…hehe), I will probably be doing mostly digital (which is so weird to me)…or not.  But in any case, I decided to make a chart for myself for the updates.

empty shelf update and goal

And though it is true, I have never once actually completed reading 52 books in a one year period, I have probably read parts of 200 or more in that time frame.  So, that’s something, isn’t it?  With all the Kindle books to choose from, plus, you know, like thousands I own…and then the library audio downloads I have just started getting into, well, it could happen!

Something new I am going to try this year

Donald Miller’s Storyline Productivity Planner.  I like it because it is pen on paper, low-tech.  Is it ok if I step away from technology and use paper in a notebook?  Please, just for this one little area?  Ok, then.  You should check it out.  Just google it “donald miller storyline productivity planner” and you’ll see a PDF link right at the top.  If you wanna.

On the first day of a brand new year and the 7th day of Christmas, here is what I know for sure:

He is real, Jesus is real.  And that makes everything that is about to happen, in 2014 and beyond, the adventure of a lifetime, tears, pain, love and joy – all of it.  And anything that ultimately brings Him glory – it’s gonna be worth it.

This blew me awayshut off your phone for 15 minutes…watch

Happy New Year, people I love, and people I will love if ever I get the chance.  :)

Um, I’m wondering – is it wrong of me to add this book to my reading list???

Good Movies on Netflix Right Now

Sometimes I get on Netflix and find nothing, nothing at all among the 8-million titles.  This could be because too many choices causes me mucho brain fog.  Am I alone in this?  I don’t think so…But then some days I am pleasantly surprised at how many great options I see on Netflix.  Even though we actually already own all of them.  :)

Here is a list of 10 great viewing opportunities (streaming) on Netflix right now.  How many have you seen?  How many do you own?

In no particular order.  Watch them all!

You’re welcomed.

1.

Love Actually (2003)

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It’s  a British Christmas-themed story with dozens of plot twists and at least 27 feel-good endings.  The music is wonderful, the cast is top-notch.  It’s energetic and colorful and even has some sniffly parts.  Sure, I fast-forward through a couple of scenes, but I still hold my breath wondering if her answer will be “Yes would be my answer,” and I annually smile like crazy as the girl in the red coat and flies into the Prime Minister’s arms at the airport {cuteness overload}…more than once!  I like this movie!  “Love actually is ~ all around.”

2.

National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation (1989)

Christmas Vacation

Classic family movie and all of my relatives are represented, including Clark Griswold, aka Dave Rhoades!  Another great soundtrack, lots of wry humor and you have to watch it to see  and shake your head over cousin Eddie if nothing else!

3.

Return to Me (2000)

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Well, first you must know I think Bonnie Hunt, who co-wrote this movie, directed it and plays a great role in it, is pretty much very cool and sort of a genius or something.  I love the Chicago backdrop and Carroll O’Connor’s performance in his final film (he died in 2001).  It is a smallish romantic comedy, a clever storyline, hilarious neighborhood characters played by an extraordinary cast and just a really lovely love story.  Plus?  Such great music – Dean Martin, people!

4.

An Officer and a Gentlemen (1982)

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Well, I mean it is one of the best endings ever.  And I am not talking about all the Richard Gere be-hind shots, either.  Hehe.   Soundtrack!

5.

As Good as it Gets (1997)

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Romantic comedy that is just thick with Jack Nicholson’s talent.  He plays a writer with obsessive-compulsive disorder and the tagline, “Brace Yourself for Melvin” is sage advice.  He is simply abrasive and horrible and yet somehow redeemable.  The film is filled with quotables – almost always said by Jack Nicholson.  Of course.

6.

Big Night (1996)

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Set in the 1950s, Tony Shalhoub and Stanley Tucci play immigrant Italian brothers who own and operate a failing restaurant.  It is beautiful to look at and the food, oh the food…get yourself a plate of spaghetti while you watch.  And plan to join them for the magnificent timpano feast on a sparkly dress-up night.  Stormie has made it for our family {see it here}.

7.

The Breakfast Club (1985)

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One of the best of the 1980s coming-of-age movies.  It’s one day in the life of 5 kids in high school detention finding out that they are more alike than different.  “Don’t you forget about me, don’t don’t don’t don’t…”

8.

A Room with a View (1986)

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Some days you just need a cup of hot tea and a Merchant-Ivory film.  It’s an adaptation of an early 1900s novel.  It is loveliness.  “Feign to deny it.”

9.

Far and Away (1992)

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The fabulous Ron Howard directed this awesome historical-drama-adventureous-romance starring Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman.  It’s a story of Irish immigrants seeking great fortunes in America culminating in the Oklahoma Land Run of 1893.  I haven’t watched this in years, but I love stories of the immigration-era (when dreams and hopes were high) and the formerly-marrieds have great chemistry in it.

10.

Irving Berlin’s White Christmas (1954)

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Seriously?  You’ve seen this, right?  Because it has everything, every-thing: music, romance, incredible sets, choreography, snow, Bing Crosby, Rosemary Clooney, counting your blessings, a black dress to die for, the hilarious Danny Kaye and Christmas by the truckloads.  Watch it with the volume up and God bless America! “Snow, snow, snow, snow ~ Snowwwwww”

This is like – 20 hours of great movie time for free!   Well, free if you already have Netflix, anyway.  :)

P.S.  As I look back over the list, I’d give most of these 4 out of 5 stars, but two of them would get the coveted 5 stars from moi…do you know which ones???

Billy Graham and the Good News

Happy 95th Birthday, Billy Graham!

I love this tagline from the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association’s website:

always good newsBecause when you are talking about what Jesus Christ came to do – isn’t it true?  It’s “Always Good News!”

I just finished reading a letter Billy Graham wrote asking us to pray with him.  See it {{HERE}}.  I’m in, Billy, praying with you!

The Cross on TV

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Hey – over the next week or so,  they are going to be broadcasting what Billy Graham is calling his last  “message to our nation” and I just wanted to tell you that I will be watching and I hope you will, too.   It will be available on several different networks at various times, check local listings.

This man has had a tremendous impact in the world during his 95 years.  My husband received Jesus Christ as his Savior at a Billy Graham event at mile High Stadium here in Denver in 1965.   So, his influence at a very personal level cannot go unnoticed!

This is historic.  This is big.  He is not the latest-greatest, he isn’t the hippest-coolest.  But he is a man who has lived his life sharing really, amazing Good News.

Let’s show honor to an honorable patriarch of the faith and invite friends and family to stop and watch.  Will you?  Bring the kiddos, in, too.

With all my heart, I want to remind Americans of God’s amazing love and, as simply and clearly as I can, call people to ‘a repentance that leads to salvation’ (2 Corinthians 7:10, ESV). ~Billy Graham

Thank-you, Dr. Graham, for a lifetime of sharing the life-changing love of God and the great hope we have in Jesus Christ.

Music on a Monday // Best TV Themes from the 1960s and 1970s

TV Themes really are woven into our musical-brains in a unique way.  They signal certain years and seasons of our lives with distinct and focused clarity.  If we loved the show, the theme probably added to it.  When we heard it coming on, we ran from the kitchen with our popcorn and Pepsi in hand, it’s time, our hearts beating faster.  **Smile.

In these days of Tivo and Apple TV, Netflix and Hulu-Plus, we watch whole seasons in a week or two, treating shows more like a mini-series than episodic TV, and if you watch more than one episode at a time, it does become monotonous to hear many of the themes over and over.   But if the theme actually adds to the fun or the intrigue or the feel of the show, then I must insist on experiencing the song again and again.

Like with Mad Men: the musical theme is a must.  It sets a sexy tone of intrigue whether I am marathoning or just fitting one episode into my evening.  When the grandbebes are here, they beg to watch Gilligan’s Island over and over and the song is key to the slapstick fun!

I want my own theme song

Wouldn’t that just be fun?  If, right before you arrived to meet your friend for coffee at Starbucks, or as you were coming down the stairs in the morning, a song started playing – a song that captured your essence and impish sweetness and set the tone for a special half-hour with you?  I want that, dangit!  I want to be wearing a yellow dress, just sort of gliding through life and have the world break forth in song in my wake.  Hahahahaha!  I laugh, but I may not actually kidding…*ahem

I sat down with a pen and wrote a quick list of some of my favorite TV theme songs from my growing up years.  It is one of the fastest lists I have ever made.  I had to keep crossing things off to keep the list from being my top FIFTY favs to just being 20…or so.  ;)

A Spotify Playlist follows.

Favorite TV Show Theme from the 1960s and 1970s

BEST TV THEMES from the 1960s and 1970s (in my humble opinion) ~ In no particular order…

  1. Brady Bunch. Well, I mean, if you were going to have a blended family, how wonderful for every single person to be so cute, looking at each other sweetly from blue boxes.  The Brady Bunch was a social-landscape-changing show, and like many shows of the time, told the whole background setting in the 30-40 second theme song.  Hilarious!  “Here’s the story of a lovely lady,” sing along with me now!
  2. Partridge Family.  OMYGOODNESS!!!  Have you never read this blog before?  This is THE quintessential show of my childhood and really – the theme of my life in its’ entirety, is it not???  Everybody – let’s SING!

    “Hello, world, here’s the song that we’re singin’
    C’mon get happy!
    A whole lot of lovin’ is what we’ll be bringin’
    We’ll make you happy!

    We had a dream we’d go travelin’ together,
    We’d spread a little love and then we’d keep movin’ on.
    Somethin’ always happens whenever we’re together
    We get a happy feelin’ when we’re singing a song.

    Trav’lin’ along there’s a song that we’re singin’
    C’mon get happy!
    A Whole lot of lovin’ is what we’ll be bringin’
    We’ll make you happy!
    We’ll make you happy!
    We’ll make you happy!”

  3. Rockford Files.  Instrumental.  It was really my dad’s show.  But the song charted on pop stations and is an earthy, sexy, adventurous, upbeat, ornery-cool song.  Mike Post won a Grammy for best instrumental arrangement in 1975.  Can’t sing to it, but can love me some James Garner – and those cute answering machine messages he’d leave for his creditors!
  4. Happy Days.  This show just took the early 70s by storm.  It was set in the late 50s-to-early 1960s with Poodle skirts and saddle shoes and the Fonz.  I recall my mom totally not getting the appeal, as she had “already lived through that era” and was glad it was over.  But the jukebox and the bobby-soxer were the rage and this show was just the thing!  Thumbs-up, “Aaaaayyyyy!”
  5. Andy Griffith Show.  The whistle.  It was one of the earliest shows of my memory.  I watched it with my mom while she’d be ironing clothes and she always  whistled along.  She taught me how when I was 3 or 4.  But I can’t do it now.  What’s up with that?
  6. The Beverly Hillbillies.  A little Bluegrass, here.  Just such a fun song to sing, and again, one of those that gave you the whole back story in a theme song.  Genius!  “Come and listen to a story ’bout a man named Jed…”
  7. Gomer Pyle, USMC.  This one didn’t have words, either, but what a rousing, fun intro that made you want to watch Gomer smile that big, goofy smile and stand at attention in an attention-getting way and say, “Well, goll-ll-ll-ll-y!”
  8. I Love Lucy.  Who wouldn’t love Lucy?  Partly why I always wanted to have red hair.
  9. Perry Mason.  Those eyes ~ and the broadest shoulders on TV ever!  I LOVE a man in a well-cut suit and tie.  Don Draper does it best these days (besides Dave, of course), but Perry was my man.  I still think about becoming a lawyer and shaming people into a confession!
  10. Sesame Street.  This show came on when I was all of about 10 and I just remember thinking, “How wonderful that the little children have such a cool show they can watch now.”  Secretly, I wished I could, too, because of this TV theme song which got lots of play on the pop stations in its early days.
  11. The Dick Van Dyke Show.  Perfect example of an instrumental TV theme that absolutely captured the fun and sophistication of the cast and characters and everything about this show.  It really has to be one of the greatest ensemble casts with more talent per square-minute than almost any other, ever.  It was beautiful, it was funny, and this song was the platform for the genius performances.  SO good!
  12. Batman.  It had words.  Na na na na na na na na na na na na na na na na Batman!
  13. The Love Boat.  In one hour, all your romantic problems could be fixed on the high seas.  “Love exciting and new, come aboard. We’re expecting you…”  I came aboard every Saturday night for 4 years.  :)
  14. The Monkees.  Now this one is weird.  Because I love the theme, but the actual show was totally beyond me, really.  I wasn’t in tune to the humor, but I watched because I thought if I kept trying, I’d get there.  But I loved their songs.  Still do.
  15. I Dream of Jeanie.  Well.  Don’t make me explain why I had to like this one.
  16. Welcome Back, Kotter.  A teacher returns to teach at his old school after his dreams had been his ticket out.  John Travolta = Vinnie Barbarino.  Good song.  Cute Vinnie.
  17. The Patty Duke Show.  See what I mean?  Not only did Patty Duke get to have her own theme song, she got to be 2 different characters.  Ok.  That’s it!  Now I want my own theme song AND I want to be able to have more than one personality!  But both – engaging and wonderful!
  18. The Courtship of Eddie’s Father.  Well, mid-century-modern cool, period.  Seeing a dad as a friend was foreign to me, but I was very impressed at how Bill Bixby did it.  I think it changed American perceptions about dads.  The images during the theme song (not to mention those voice-over low-key conversations between a boy and his dad ) are undeniably strong.Courtship of Eddies Father
  19. Green Acres.  “Green Acres is the place to be.  Farm living is the life for me!”  I could not have sang that better myself!  I get Mr. Oliver Wendell Douglas.  I get him.  Now where is my version of that house and farm and cast of silly characters, including a pig named Arnold?  Where, I ask you?
  20. My Three Sons.  This theme song also has a particular visual I could not NOT watch!  It is so scaled-back hip, animated line-drawing cool!  HAD to watch it whenever I could!

I recall quite a few shows for a girl with no TV at home from the mid-60s until the World Series of 1971, huh?

Bonus info…THESE two shows (also my favs)

UNO:::The Mary Tyler Moore Show, “Who can turn the world on with her smile?”  I wanted to grow up and wear the outfits she was wearing and “take a nothing day and suddenly make it all seem worthwhile,” and toss my hat into the air in the middle of the city just like Mary.  The great strength of this show was an incredible supporting cast, strong characters and how it visually captured changing times.  Great lyrics, warmth, memory-making, fun-to-sing!  One of the best ever  ~ and the one that sparked me thinking about TV themes because this actually could be a theme song for my great niece, Emilee.  :)

Mary Tyler Moore Show collage

DOS:::That Girl! (Marlo Thomas) I loved this show, but Marlo carried most of it.  She did have the amazing Donald (her TV boyfriend), but her supporting cast didn’t do enough for her, I don’t think.    “She’s everything that every girl should be….That girl!”

That Girl collage

have led to today’s:

New Girl Jess

Uno + Dos + Tres = ::: New Girl starring Zoey Daschenal.  This is one of my fav TV show themes ever, really!  “Who’s that girl?  Who’s that girlIt’s me!”  Oops, “It’s Jess!”  Well, I mean – I was wishing for some props like these and ya know: my own theme song.

Here is a YouTube playlist of all three openings.  That Girl ~ Mary Tyler Moore Show ~ New Girl.  Do I need to submit any further evidence of the need for a personal theme song?  It ensures good lighting at all times, a fabulous wardrobe, and hats and good hair days, together or on their own.  *sigh….

The MAIN problem I had was when I went to create this playlist on Spotify…

I saw so many other shows with great themes, too.  Like Room 222, which I think I wrote a whole blog post about a few years back.  Of course you cannot deny the power of Gilligan’s Island to make. you. crazy!!!  I hate it, but the theme song is catchy.  There was Hawaii 5-0, Bewitched (which I wasn’t supposed to like because of witches), and Family Affair, not to mention The Munsters…and so many more!

Many of these are not actually the original, but this is a fun, happy, good-memory kind of playlist, anyway!

What were your favorite TV themes?  Do you have 20 or 50-some like me?

That is Simply Detritus

That was TOO close {insert lots of Christian-style cussing here}!  I don’t actually like football and don’t wish to watch it ever, anyway, and especially don’t want to see it when the Broncos are going to freaking scare me to death.

Whew!  Thank goodness they finally won.

Gavin thought it was very interesting and curious that our coffee table once belonged to a Jacksonville Jaguar football player.  Though when he owned it, it was very heavy, dark wood with gold paint gilding on it.  It’s heavy-duty, for sure.  I need a football player to move it for me.

 

detritus: waste or debris of any kind // as in // “All that bungling-fumbling-fingered playing was such a detritus of talent and ball-handling.

That doesn’t really work, does, it?  Haha.  So much for the word of the day.

Watch and Listen


Now-play it again and sing these words:

Over the mountains and the sea

Your river runs with love for me

And I will open up my heart

And let the Healer set me free

I’m happy to be in the truth

And I will daily lift my hands

For I will always sing of

Of when Your love came down

I could sing of your love forever…

Um, yeah, Kelloggs.  You are ripping off Martin Smith (Delirious).  I’m so sure.

Autumn Red

I snapped this shot of a leaf that fell from my front tree a couple of years ago in late October.  It somehow managed to swish and swoosh its’ way up onto my porch near the front door.  It was so big and colorful it made me happy, even though I always hate the passing of summer.  I am so glad I took the picture.

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Which brings this: Isn’t it really amazing, I mean, I know we have been doing this for over a hundred years, but still – aren’t we  oh-so-blessed to see something that we like and be able to take a picture of it for later?  Just SNAP!  Got it!  That is just the coolest thing ever!

I have been looking through images from 2011 because the digital age, for all the ease it has brought in making good photo-taking available to the masses has also saddled us with a whole new place to organize and purge from time to time.  Bleh.  But anyway – there was this shot and really, what the heck am I going to do with it, anyway.  But the fall season always brings out a deep, romantic mood in me and I feel the need to read poetry and re-visit my favorite seasonal quotes and sing songs about autumn and just sort of feel the fall in whatever way my senses and emotions can grasp it.

The Marilyn Monroe quote.

First, I feel about internet quotes like this:

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Hahahahahaha!  Isn’t that hilarious and just truly the thing?

But, several websites say Marilyn said this, so it has to be true, right?

“Designers want me to dress like Spring, in billowing things. I don’t feel like Spring. I feel like a warm, red Autumn.”

What did she mean?  Well, I can’t ask her, but I assume she meant: I feel things more deeply at this ripe and fruitful time of my life.  I feel like a full-grown woman, as opposed to some foolish girl,  a woman who knows her mind and risks her thunderous-beating  heart to more vulnerability and tenderness than I’d have allowed when younger.   And my experience in life and love and heartbreak and second chances have made me more deeply passionate and compassionate and warm.  I’m old enough now to understand the rich treasure my nurturing provides for those who are lucky enough to be planted in my heart and the wildly increased ability I now have to love.

Yep.  That is what I think she was trying to say.

I feel the same, Norma Jean.  I feel like a warm, red Autumn.

 

Eyebrows

I am not going to tell you which of my daughters {Stormie} got us all thinking about eyebrows a lot.  I spent years {and years and years} getting mine under control so as  not to allow them to take over my entire forehead.

Now I’m told to allow them to do as they wish.  I don’t think so.

Julianna during ER

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Julianna now as The Good Wife.

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She definitely got better.  And her eyebrows are quite under control, thank-you, very much.

Richelieu is in the House!

Dave’s third published novel arrived today.

 richelieu by dave rhoades

Makes him a very happy camper!

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Dave Rhoades author

Find out lots more about Richelieu and how you can purchase your copy at www.daverhoades.com

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RICHELIEU by Dave Rhoades, the second installment of the Zack Tucker series // Connect on Facebook

Good job, honey.  I can’t wait until you have time to just write all the stories you have in your head!  Someday…

Passing the Personality Test

You can’t submit to a personality-lobotomy to gain approval from others.  It won’t work. It will be ill-fitting, uncomfortable.  Nor should you hate who God created you to be because you don’t always fit in or have experienced pain in your humanness (God knows you’re human, you know).  Every single personality type has its strengths and weaknesses.

We just think we’re the oddball.

Meanwhile in two separate conversations on this exact subject, but at the opposite ends of the spectrum (self-hatred vs people-pleasing), the movie line below still cracks me up.

Preface: John Cusack is quite possibly the most underrated actor in America today.  And by underrated, I just mean he should be paid more per movie than  – almost any other actor -alive -anywhere.  Because in my book (and among really intelligent people the world over, I am sure) he is just awesome!  So try to imagine him (or watch the movie)…

From Must Love Dogs (2007)…John Cusack’s character, Jake, has hand-crafted a boat using time-honored skills and much work and is speaking to a possible buyer…

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Boat Guy: Man, this is absolutely gorgeous. I love this. I can’t believe you built it yourself.
JAKE: Yeah, handcrafted. Hand-carved.  I hope you’ll find that it’s more than a boat.  It’s a time machine.
Boat Guy: I love it. I want it. I’ll take it.
JAKE: Great. Did you race a lot in college?
Boat Guy: I don’t plan to race it. Could you cut it in half for me?
JAKE: Excuse me?
Boat Guy: Yeah, cut it in half lengthwise. I think it would be easier to mount on the wall that way.
JAKE: You want to mount the boat?
Boat Guy: Yeah. I thought I’d put it in the den. It’d look great above my big screen.
JAKE: You know, I think maybe you should go to IKEA and buy a canoe. It’s not for sale in that way.
Boat Guy (to Jake’s friend): He’s kidding, right?
Jake’s friend: Wouldn’t that be nice.
JAKE: I’ve had this dream that it’ll end up wet.  It’s just not for sale in that way at this time. Ever, really.
Boat Guy: Okay. Well, if you change your mind, I really do want it.

JAKE: Yeah, if I change my personality, I’ll let you know what I become.

Don’t try to change your personality.  But you can work on renewing your mind.  Romans 12.2…then you’ll be the best version of you, the one God had in mind when He created you.  That will be comfortable skin to be in!