Category Archives: 7 Keep Christmas

My FAVORITE of all holidays (and holy days), rich with symbolism and meaning. It is not only deeply spiritual, but full of meaning I get to publicly share during the season, my best witnessing days each year!

Hot off the Press

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Stormie had a book bound for me for Christmas with pictures of cakes I have made in 2007.  She just uploaded the pictures and made up some script and voila-I have a published volume, looking ever so official, with a UPC code and everything.  It was such a cool gift.  She also made me an "official" sign to  hang in the car window when transporting cakes so that cars passing by won't flip me off for going slow: CAKE ON BOARD

It is amazing.  It really is.  If you are driving carefully so the cake won't spill and people don't know your reason – they are mean, grouchy passers.  But if you have a Cake-on-Board sign, I've discovered, they go by with a big smile and a thumbs-up.  So – anyway, my sweet Stormie put together those thoughts in honor of all the cakes (see here and here, or just do a search of "cakes" on this site) I have been making.

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So, my sons-in-law and other kids got to joking around on Christmas morning as they were all telling me I should go into business making cakes and off they went on a secret mission.  A few minutes later I was called to the computer where they had quickly put together a website called "JeanieCakes."  You can even see it here: www.jeaniecakes.com

Crazy kids!  Crazy, sweet, wonderful, honoring kids!

Guess I should put together a business plan?…Jeanie

NOTE TO SELF: Practice cake baking.  Watch more Ace of Cakes! www.charmcitycakes.com

Pictured: the already well-fingerprinted cover of the book from Stormie; a view of the back part of the dust jacket featuring Audrey's wedding cake in up-close detail and a little bio of me inside; a random spread from inside showing Hunter's fire truck cake; the book face down

Happy Anniversary, Stephanie & Tristan

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Well, as the first to be married, you were the ones we really practiced on!  Six years ago, only 2 days after Christmas (I thought you were trying to kill me), you were married and danced your first dance – under the upside-down-white-tree-trimmed-in-crystals-and-strewn-with-thousands-of-white-lights-looking-ever-so-"giant chandelier-ish" (a similiar version hangs in The Celebration Center at Northern Hills this year, courtesy of your brother, Rocky).  And Christmases have changed in their look and feel and sound ever since!

December 27, 2001 was relatively quiet and oh-so-lovely.  You chose old world, and elegance: deep wine and winter white with lots of sparkle and candles in a church that overlooked the Boulder Valley-shimmering in Christmas lights – all for your wedding!  It was regal and traditional with a twist: Radiohead provided the background as you danced and I am still wondering: what the heck were they saying??!?

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Your love and the family you have created have, in many ways, have shaped the landscape of our family celebrations and certainly led the parade to the joyous festivities we now experience.  Yes, in six, short years you've gone from being just the ever-cool, cutting-edge, on-their-way-to-London Tristan and Stephanie to the ever-cool parents of 2 awesome redheads and an adorable blond.  As your family has grown, our whole family has, too, and life is a little more exciting and interesting and louder than it used to be and that is OK!  It is, in fact, great!

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Steph, you know we know you got the best!  You chose well.  Tristan, thank-you for choosing Stephanie and fearlessly becoming one of us.  We all love your love for each other!

Happy Anniversary, my darling ones…mom

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PICTURED:   Steph & Tris with Gavin, early 2004; just the 2 lovebirds in Dec. 2004 (pregnant with Guini); Easter 2007, about a month before Gemma was born; Thanksgiving 2007 – the whole Kelley family.

My Treasure:

  • Godly parents who raised me well.  They are still alive and kicking and doing Kingdom work, after 50 years of marriage and raising 5 kids and 15 grandkids and 4 great-grandchildren.  More to come!…
  • The most amazing and loving husband – Dave.  He has spent all our years pressing in to know me and love me.  His love covers me.  His touch heals me.
  • My children: Tara, so passionate and her beloved, Dave the powerful, watchful – Stephanie, so sensitive and her gentle and strong Tristan – Mighty Tredessa, out loving the world for Jesus Christ – Rocky, my amazing son and his beauty, Jovan – Stormie my baby, true and real.  AND my grandchildren: Gavin and Guini and Gemma, Hunter and the baby girl to be…You're the reason I was born.
  • The friends who have stayed true when I wasn't worth their effort and who refused to be swayed by my hopelessness, but pushed me back into the light – you know who you are.
  • Home – not the walls and roof, but the safe place where hearts meet, where the laughter rises and the love grows…I have a home!…
  • Heritage – all the people before -who influenced all the people before -who influenced all the people who would influence me.  I come from the good, the bad and the ugly, but also the rich in spirit.  It is the gift that my grandparents and parents passed on to me – coming from insurmountable odds – to give me the sweet life I have not deserved, but so enjoyed.  It is siblings who are worthy of my greatest admiration. I have gold to pass on.
  • A Savior, and how I have needed one – He walks with me and He talks with me…

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My treasure has no value on the open market.  My treasure is in the faces of the people I love, the letters with their kind words, the pictures small hands have painted for me.   My riches aren't even the thoughtful and loving gifts my family bestowed upon me on Christmas morning (though they divined my true needs, my heart's desires in the most carefully attentive way), but the time they sanctified, the hours they set apart to spend with me.  My fortune is in the minutes I collect from the people I am most passionate about – this is the true measure of my wealth.

“Joseph,” more commonly known as “Hunter”

We were trying to throw some fabric remnants over the kids for a little homemade nativity scene the other day.  Hunter did NOT want to be "Joseph," Jesus' earthly father…that is until he found out Joseph is usually depicted with a staff, known by Hunter as a "stick."  We showed him the tiny Joseph from the nativity set and when he saw that, he was in all the way.! In this picture, he is waiting patiently for the other kids to get into their remnanted-costumes.

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Just another December day at my house…Jeanie

NOTE TO SELF:  Next year be better prepared for photo shoot with actual costumes!!! (AND – lots of help!  Yowzers!)

Reflecting the Glory

Growing up in the 60's and 70's, Christmas trees were much different than they are now.  These days everyone has their very own designer-collection-themed-one-of-a-kind-specially-lit-custom-skirted tree…or two.  But in the 60's and 70's there were only a couple of ways to go: a real tree, which was like 88.920173% of the population, or a you-can-really-tell-it's-a-fake tree.  Ornaments were simpler – mostly shiny, round balls with a few special pieces here and there.  Garland?  Silver or gold, run in either a straight, but descending line or fancily looped.

We had the big C7 lights on our trees in the 60's that morphed into the tiny twinkle lights of the 70s, but since they were so small and we weren't used to that then, they had these multi-prismed, plastic cuffs that fit onto them to reflect more light. 

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But the one thing that was so prevalent back then – on nearly every single tree in some quanitity, something that you don't see much, for it has been out of vogue for so long now – was tinsel.  Placing tinsel on the tree was the final, crowning glory – that last touch that suddenly made all the pieces a congruent work of art.  My neighbor's family blanketed theirs with so much tinsel that you could barely make out the colored lights or decorations.  There were friends who would place one strand of tinsel per branch-creating a tree that spoke of scarcity to me – did those people give out presents with the same reservation?

But my mom was the perfect tinsl-er.  She could stand back and look and know exactly the amount of tinsel that was needed and where and would lovingly distribute it about.  And suddenly, we would all step back and look and the tree had all of the tiny streamers of glittering silver tinsel it needed.  It did not need even one more strand.  It did not need less.  It was perfect.

But  tinsel became so passe.  In the late 80's I moved to designer colored tinsel for my trees, which was long, and sleek and came in purple or mauve or country blue, perhaps white.  But by the 90's, really, people, it was so out!  There was no way I would use that stuff!

But then, I got nostalgic.

So – we have THE tree in the living room.  It is well-coordinated and I do believe: lovely, and tells, through the materials I have carefully chosen, my faith story, my celebration of Christ, my decorative taste for Christmas.

But the tree in the family room, full of odds and ends from so many Christmases past, packed with school-made ornaments and artwork from my 5 children, laced with a paperchain and candy canes and C7s burning alongside tiny twinkle-lights in white, yes, but colors, too! – That tree is my Christmas past (lots of "Baby's first Christmas" found here!) and my Christmas present (now I have grandchildren adding to the ornamentation) and it is what I cherish most as I look ahead.  It is heavily-laden.  Stormie asked, "Where are the branches?"

It's true, as I finished I noticed that all of the stuff was was obscuring some of the light.  But I knew just what to do.  I grabbed a handful of wadded, fine, silver tinsel and began placing little tufts of it here and there.  I actually got teary-eyed at the memory of it, but also at the revelation I received, for everywhere I tucked some in, that branch, that little area, suddenly became sparkly and well-lit, as the tinsel reflected the lights on the tree.

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"And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect God's glory, are being transformed into His likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord…" 2 Cor. 3.18 NIV

I am Christmas tinsel.  Some may welcome what I bring, others eschew it, but wherever I go, no matter how much darkness was there, I am a reflector and that darkness is a little less powerful. 

No kidding-that is really what I got as I hung tinsel!…Jeanie

NOTE TO SELF: I am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  I am happy to reflect HIS glory in the heavily-shadowed places I encounter each day.  Unveil, soak up the glory.

Pictured: the family room tree, topped with my own childhood angel-hair angel from 1964