Home.
Walked through the house. Opened the sliding glass doors to look out on the starry night and let Sandy run her home turf. *Inhaled. Nice.
Missing the mamala and papasan (and the whole Moslander buunch), but it is good to be home.
Walked through the house. Opened the sliding glass doors to look out on the starry night and let Sandy run her home turf. *Inhaled. Nice.
Missing the mamala and papasan (and the whole Moslander buunch), but it is good to be home.
Hot coffee and letting my wet hair dry (freeze) on my mom and dad’s deck on a *crispy-cool* Indiana morning.
The leaves are literally changing color as I watch them.
We have walked the paths and are enjoying the sun and chill in the air. And blue, blue skies. Did you know I love blue, blue skies? I do. I love blue, blue skies. :)
Two Blue Herons off Lake Michigan came to visit and bid us a happy morning.
What they found to munch on, we haven’t a clue.
But I walked towards them and mamala came at them from behind the house, and we made them fly away so I could get a picture. But drat. It was on video and my cheap little cam is not focusing anymore on video. But alas, we watched the heron, big as Florida flamingos, fly away. Back to Lake Michigan.
Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrr…a cold front is taking its’ sweet time passing through Colorado. Some people even got a snow dusting yesterday. We didn’t see any, but omygoodness: COLD!
The high today isn’t even going to be over 40 degrees, I bet, and the power companies are watching with glee as those heat-meters crank up full steam in this stretch of days before the sun comes back out and rights this ridiculous infringement of a wintry blast on our pretty fall.
But not me. In spite of Dave’s pleading (he even tried to sway me by telling me our aged dog was freezing), I refuse to turn on the heat. I am fully aware that it is fifty.eight.freezing-degrees in here. Yes, that is right – IN our house – 58-degrees! But there are other ways to get through these days. I am resolved!
Wear more clothes even in the house. Seems simple enough, but us Denver-ites never-ever pack away our shorts and flip-flops: NEVER. We will likely need them on Christmas eve because it will be so dang hot. But for the next 3 or 4 days, wear socks with shoes and layer up and put on a hat. Yes, in your house. It will keep you warm.
You can see I truly do practice these suggestions. Demonstrated here by a photo of Gemma May and Averi-J last January. “Yea, we’re just hanging at Nonna’s, freezing our little buns off, doing some artwork.”
Make yourself a rice sock. What?! Haven’t discovered the beauty of a rice-sock? Well, I think Jovan taught me about them, but it is simply this: you take the longest tube sock you can fine, fill it about 75% full of good-old-white rice. Secure the end tightly with a rubber band or ponytail holder (warning:: Do NOT use a twistt-tie with a metal center to close the sock…don’t ask me how I know). Then you pop it in the microwave for a couple of minutes and and this wonderful, hot, flexible rice-filled sock gets wrapped around your neck and heats you up. It is wondrous. I would have forgotten this amazing thing if it had not been for a pulled muscle in my neck. How serendipitous for me that the strained muscle coincided with this current cold-front. Dave and I were watching Judge Judy the other night and he was like, “It’s freezing – do you think we should turn on the heat?”
“If you tell the truth you don’t have to have a good memory!!!!!!!”
That was Judge Judy’s voice, not mine. My response was, with the 2 blankets, a hoodie and my rice-sock, “Honey, it feels perfectly toasty in here. Why would we want to jump the gun and turn on the heat?”
NOTE: On heating the rice sock in the micro, repeat as needed.
Toast for dinner. Put in your bread and crowd around the toaster soaking up the rising, excess heat. Eat lots of bread.
WARNING: those of you with that gluten thing should not try this without your doctor’s permission.
And on kitchen activities, suddenly become Julia Child or Jamie Oliver or the Barefoot Contessa (who has the sense to be wearing shoes today, btw) and start baking and cooking your head off just for the love of being a gourmet. You can pretend you always spend your Saturdays making a months’ worth of freezer meals because you love your family so much, and just happen to keep warm while you’re at it!
Use some one else’s heat. Time to visit a neighbor or relative, one of those poor saps that couldn’t hold out and already turned on their heat. They’re paying an arm and a leg for it so you may as well use it!
Afternoon Delight. “Rubbin’ sticks -n- stones together makes the sparks ignite.” I realize you kind of have to be from the 70s to understand this life-saving tip, but suffice it to say that cuddling = warmth. That is enough about that.
Convert to Catholicism and spend the day in prayer at your altar of candles. I won’t turn on the heat, but Dave did haul in some of those candles he bought at Target for 38-cents 2 years ago. Nabbed about 30 of them and I may have shook my head at him then, but look who is the hero now! We’re just praying our heads off and toasty!
Oh wait – Sandy-the-Dog says I missed the most obvious of all: cuddle with the family pet. Naturally.
“Just before the death of flowers,
And before they are buried in snow,
There comes a festival season
When nature is all aglow.” – Unknown
Easier to read: autumnal equinox, fall, season, October, chilly mornings, leaves, vivid colors, brown, gold, yellow, red, orange, golden, smoke, bonfire, burning leaves, crunching, jumping, tossing, raking, leaf pile, path, trail, meander, overgrown gardens, reap, cobwebs, gourds, woods, snowy mountains, orchard, tree, maple, oak, branches, corn maze, cornstalks, candy corn, Indian corn, Indian summer, squirrel, chipmunk, foraging sparrows, football, World Series, brisk, chilly, cold, icy, frost, breath, pumpkin patch, hay, bale, falling leaves, pumpkin carving, nuts, cinnamon, pumpkins, apples, spicy, savory, cider, hot cocoa, coffee, soup, stew, chili, scarves, sweaters, jackets, fire, warm, roaring, crackling, inviting, cozy, crisp, blustery, welcoming, sights, sounds, smells, blowing out the sprinkler system, putting the pool away, deep blue sky, clouds, rain, wind, storm, breeze, flannel, denim, corduroy, wool, fleece, Harvest moon, moonglow, moondance, plaid.
October? Like always, is orange (which I have mentioned before HERE and HERE)
Today, for the first time really, there is no doubt we are facing autumn and total weather changing for the season. That breeze that blew through yesterday – we went from 82 to 55 in 2 hours! I see a possible snow-shower for Saturday on the forecast. Like clockwork.
…I have been younger in October
than in all the months of spring…
naked air late morning
my love is for lightness…
– W. S. Merwin, The Love of October
I have simply been the most neglectful gardener this year, so I will let what happens, happen. Anything that survives this brief cold front, bravo. Anything that doesn’t, fare-thee-well. The fridge is already full of bounty and I am ready to embrace this next season.
10 am off the deck at Lori’s house.
And we saw lots of Elk, but did not take one picture of them. Not one.
Primarily, I suppose, because even though it is Elk season up there, I was there for the purely selfish reason of reprieve and relaxation. Not the elk. For me. The elk are on their own for that.
Clouds started rolling in late morning.
Leaving in the early afternoon for some time on the River Walk and people watching; the Aspen just out the front door was changing color hourly, I swear!
Back to the mansion on the hilltop in Estes at around 7 pm. Some clouds had moved in and it even sprinkled on us for 5 minutes or so. But the sun was forcing its’ way back into our evening…
I decided to sit outside and sing my head off until it got very dark and cold or I lost my voice. The voice went first. But it was also pretty dark and a tad chilly.
The last of the day’s fall rays.
Refreshed in the crisp, cool Colorado Rocky Mountain air.
THANK-YOU, Lori (o blessed niece-of-mine) and Emilee (great-niece, great in both senses of the word) and fam for the loan of your exquisite, way-up-high home while you were away. LOVELY. Peaceful and life-giving!
My songs are probably still echoing around the mountains. Hope that does not disturb the elk. :)
“It doesn’t matter how great the pressure is; what really matters is where the pressure lies – whether it comes between you and God or presses you nearer His heart.”
– Hudson Taylor, Hudson Taylor’s Spiritual Secret
The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, And His ears are open to their cry. The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, And delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, But the Lord delivers him out of them all. He guards all his bones; Not one of them is broken. The Lord redeems the soul of His servants, And none of those who trust in Him shall be condemned.
Selections from Psalm 34 NKJV
This is a true saying:
“Good bread is the most fundamentally satisfying of all foods; and good bread with fresh butter, the greatest of feasts.” ~James Beard
Hot, steamy, buttered bread is a life’s delight. It is becoming rarer as the years go, making it more wonderful, still.
“I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst.” ~Jesus, in John 6
I haven’t done an homage to Pinterest in awhile. I definitely do not utilize it like I was a year ago at this time, when I was a new user and planning a wedding {see the wedding board HERE}.
I don’t love it because I find cool stuff there, though at times, I do. I love it because of how easy it is for me to record the cool things I find elsewhere on the web and can so easily, sort, organize and keep record in of said locations for future use. Works for me.
I rarely actually go back and look through my boards, but when I do, I am always happy I did – for I immediately see things I forgot I loved. And I love them all over again. Happy. :)
Also, I ran across a design blog awhile back that posed the question: if this blog were a room, what would it look like? I thought it was an odd, but interesting query. And I wondered how the heck I could find a room that answered that? And I probably couldn’t, but I figured I would look on my Pinterest boards and see if I could find rooms that resonate with what I am thinking/feeling/expressing when I write and post here at Thought Collage.
The Jeanie Green Board (“Jeanie Green” was coined by my friend, Candi, to describe a color I wholly love – that 70s-inspired shade of apple green that I adopted with zeal after I first kissed Jimmy Green in the church parking lot in 1972). If this blog were a room from the Jeanie-Green board, it would look like this:
This is not quite “Jeanie-green,” a tad too bluish, but in this blog-room, I would have bouffant hair and be listening to records. {source:unknown}
There would be serious jolts of red and kid-art and wholly un-stodgy motifs strewn throughout. Silliness? In extra-large batches, please! {source}
Naturally, this blog-room is entered through the apple-green door. {source:unknown}
Sweet Dreams (bedrooms I find lovely)
If this blog were a bedroom, it would have a roomful of beds because it is ALL about the grandbebe sleepovers! {source}
Orange-Jeanieous (Orange thrills me and makes me smile, and I finally created a board to collect images of happiness and named it as a take on the delicious Orange-Julius drinks of my youth).
Again with the records in this blog-room of my life! {source}
There is always a big bowl of crayons readily available at Nonna’s house for instant art-making! {source}
My Grandma Baker painted her living room “tangerine” in the 1960s. It was bold and delicious and someday I will do the same in my house. But until I have the courage, the walls of this blog-as-a-room are decidedly tangerine! Can’t you tell? {source}
And finally, from my “main” board (and some odds and ends boards), if Thought Collage {jeanierhoadesdotcom} were a room ~
My TRANSITIONAL Style (decor I thoroughly love, steeped in tradition, but embracing post-modern and cleaner lines, heavily sprinkled in bright, light fun, some Bohemian-hippie-style with lots of kid-love on the counters). Plus a couple of other boards on Pinterest.
Come on in. Have a seat! {source}
I hope this blog-as-a-room is about comfort, no airs, just love and life and color and light. And lots of weird, interesting art on the walls. {source}
And there is old stuff mixed in with these new days, me recalling my growing-up-years and spilling the details and memories, mixing it up with life in the fast-lane we now know it to be. {source}
This room is full of quotes and books and music. {source}
It is about gardening and food. {source} {source}
This blog-room houses the glory – about my relationship with a Savior, the Savior. And this pin is my true story, as you know from reading. {source}
And this blog-room is nothing if not filled with family! And o-how-I-love the one God gave me. {source}
Yes, I pinned this. It still counts.
My thoughts, hodge-podged in the posts I share here, add them all up and what have you got? A rather noisy room with lots of color and mismatched elements, words about everything from songs to soups, from grandbebe cuteness to my personal sorrows and fears and tears. It is a messy thing, isn’t it, this blog room? But it is my own.
“And we have come to understand that in this house we are fulfilling our impossible dreams, and living our days in contentment and grace.” –Alexandra Stoddard
This playlist is a huge category. There are soooooo many songs about hearth and home or houses and hometowns. Quite overwhelming, actually. I had to leave off another 8 or 9 that I really liked (like “Lucky” Jason Mraz and Colbie Callait – to be used on a future list) just because I was determined to keep this list at 10. There is a playlist from YouTube at the end of this blog that includes each of the songs I have written about here.
I’m a home-grown, home-loving, home-girl. I don’t necessarily mean a house, either. I mean home the feeling, home the people. Home. Sweet home.
LORD, it seems You have been my home forever, from ‘once upon a time,’ to ‘happily ever after,’ (from before the mountains were formed until time is no more), You are God and You have been my God and my home. Psalm 90.1-2, my paraphrase
Check out my top ten songs and why they made the cut.
#1 Back Home Again, John Denver
Long story, told as sparingly as possible. The rest are shorter.
Why do I love this song? There is a whole family story. I cannot capture it here, but suffice it to say that my brother Joe (yes, that Joe), ran away from home. My dad had accepted a church far, far away from any home we’d ever known and there was some culture shock and he was a HS freshman and of course, we showed up mid-year, so it is hard.
It tore our family up – days of Joe just missing. But after the better part of a week, he was found and the police were putting him on a plane and my parents drove to New Orleans to get him and he wasn’t there. The airline said he hadn’t boarded. We all mourned even more. My mom was sick with sorrow. We assumed he ran again after the police delivered him to the airport. There was a heavy darkness at our house.
Then a phone call: the flight he’d been on was cancelled – he arrived late (airlines can be dumb). We all climbed in the Ford Station Wagon and went to get him. What a relief. There was much love and my dad took us to a really nice steak house and we feasted on the fatted calf, so to speak. The son had come home.
It was nearing midnight, I think, as we drove back to Robert, Louisiana, past our school-night bedtime. The excitement was quieting down and we were just so happy he was there. The family was settled in listening to the radio, still, as the car hummed along. Just as we pulled in to the driveway, John Denver’s voice filled the car
There’s a storm across the valley, clouds are rollin’ in
the afternoon is heavy on your shoulders.
There’s a truck out on the four lane, a mile or more away
the whinin’ of his wheels just makes it colder.
He’s an hour away from ridin’ on your prayers up in the sky
and ten days on the road are barely gone.
There’s a fire softly burning; supper’s on the stove
but it’s the light in your eyes that makes him warm.
My dad put the car in park, but none of us moved, not a muscle. We all sensed the holiness of the moment, the serendipity of this particular song at this distinct second in time…and we just sat there…in the driveway…in the late night – listening, knowing somehow God was blessing the boy coming home. We listened to every single word and note of that song, almost afraid to even breathe…
It’s the sweetest thing I know of, just spending time with you
it’s the little things that make a house a home.
Like a fire softly burning and supper on the stove.
And the light in your eyes that makes me warm.
Hey, it’s good to be back home again
Sometimes this old farm feels like a long lost friend
Yes, ‘n, hey it’s good to be back home again.
It was a moment barely spoken of for years, for it was too precious. And it was this monumental transcendent time-fragment we’ll never forget. Because for all of the fear and sadness and rejoicing those days had brought, that moment became the time we knew we were together, all those miles from our kin and the life we’d known before, and we were home.
And the brother I loved was safe. My little Joey.
So how could I not love this song? It’s my number one song about home.
#2 The House that Built Me, Miranda Lambert
This was the Country Music Awards song of the Year in 2011, I believe, maybe 2010. Such a great song. It is the story of adult going back to the house she grew up in and asking the owner to let her come inside to look around. She calls it “the house that built me” because of all the memories of her experiences growing up there. It immediately, when I heard it, reminded me of 1723 York Street, an address which, if you read this blog, you’ll recognize {the house of my carefree-childhood memories}. A quick search and you will see the address shows up regularly here…I wonder how many times? :)
And I have always wanted to go back there, to my house-that-built-me and see if I could go through it. And if the owners now ever stumble on this blog – I hope they won’t think I am crazy. I hope they’ll just watch the Miranda Lambert video and be able to understand that many-many-many years ago, I was a little girl there, and the memories are sweet and fine. O, the projects I planned and the dreams I dreamed and adventures I experienced there…
I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness in me might start healing…
If I could just come in I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothing but a memory from the house that built me.
#3 Home is Wherever I’m with You, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes
This song is so fun-gritty, backwoods-country-AND-modern and did-I-mention: fun. The sentiment is that “home” is where your “people” are, the ones you love the most, not so much a location and street address. And that is a true thing! Cute-cute-cute!
#4 Who Says You Can’t Go Home, Bon Jovi
Well Bon Jovi is a great rocker who wrote and performed this song, which highlighted the work of Habitat for Humanity. I like him a lot. Crank it up and roll down the windows and sing loud while you are enjoying your neighborhood. You can go home again!
#5 I’ll Be Home for Christmas, The Carpenters
Everybody and their dog has performed this classic Christmas number. This song, written about a WWII soldier coming home from war for Christmas, was first recorded by Bing Crosby in 1943. But then the likes of Amy Grant, Anne Murray and Andy Williams recorded it, too. Other covers were made by the Beach Boys, Smokey Robinson, Frank Sinatra, Barbra Streisand and Brad Paisley. Neil Diamond, Kenny Chesney and Elvis sang it, too. Hundreds of people have recorded the song and it is a lovely,melancholy tune recalling, with great affection, the beauty of “home.” It speaks of a longing, a homesickness, that resonates for all of us when we just wish we could be with the people we love, in a place we’re together.
Dave and I were talking about the renditions we heard most growing up. And though I feel like I heard the Johnny Mathis version a lot, we determined The Carpenters was the primary version we grew up with, that Karen’s haunting voice was the smooth sound that made this song relevant in the 1970s and beyond. She interpreted well and as far as songs about home, this one has to be in the mix because, Christmas or not – sometimes dreaming and remembering is the only way we actually get to be with our families, our loves.
#6 Home, Phillip Phillips
Phillip Phillips won 2012 American Idol. He was good and my pick from early on. He is very earthy and young, but also sort of timeless and seasoned and when the 2 finalists got to pick a song they’d release in case they won and I saw him perform this song, I was like, “O-my-gosh he will positively win this!” He just killed this song. In a good way.
And you know how sometimes when you first hear a song it takes a while to grow on you? This song was not like that. I loved it immediately! It speaks of some one making a place for you, a home, a safe place. LOVE it.
Hold on, to me as we go
As we roll down this unfamiliar road
And although this wave is stringing us along
Just know you’re not alone
Cause i’m going to make this place your home
Settle down, it’ll all be clear
Don’t pay no mind to the demons
They fill you with fear
The trouble it might drag you down
If you get lost, you can always be found
Just know you’re not alone
Cause i’m going to make this place your home
#7 Green, Green Grass of Home, Tom Jones
It was the 1960s…and this song just sucked me in. I couldn’t seem to hear it enough back then and the surprise ending got me every. single. time. Tragic.
#8 Home, Michael Buble
Just smooth and sweet, sung by the super-suave crooner of the day. He is on the road (trying to write her letters) and and he is missing his love and he just wants to get on the plane and go home.
#9 House of Love, Amy Grant and Vince Gill
They sang this in 1994 way before they married and I do not really understand the official video (the little house thing?), but I just enjoy this hope-filled song. I had a friend going through a break-up when this was on the charts and this was the song we prayed through. And it is a fun song to sing and “the lights are coming on in the house of love.” And they did for my friend!
#10 Taking You Home, Don Henley
The gravely-soulful drummer-boy of the Eagles. “Take my hand, love, I’m taking you home, Taking you home.”
Come on. Let’s go home. :)
“For me, home is the coming together of my past memories and experiences, of my love for my children, husband and friends;…my optimism tangibly expressed in life-enhacing ways, room by room…” –Alexandra Stoddard
Any Friday you cut into fresh lemons and squeeze the juice from them (the greater percentage of it hitting the target receptacle, but lots of tiny sprays go every-which-way, too), well, that is a day you have released sunshine right into your kitchen and brain and life.
Try it. Even if a recipe isn’t calling for it. Just unleash a lemon on your day.
“The grace (favor and spiritual blessing) of the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the presence and fellowship (the communion and sharing together, and participation) in the Holy Spirit be with you all. Amen (so be it).” 2 Corinthians 13:14 AMP